We choose the attitudes we want others to see. We are not victims to gender, regions, signs, religions, etc., but rather a reflection of our experiences. When one chooses to use the statement, "Well, I'm from.....,"it would naturally make you wonder why the best from where they are from isn't being shown. Why must people align with the most negative aspects of their experiences and or their upbringing to justify their manner of behavior? Something is wrong with the acceptance of certain behaviors and or the tolerance of certain behaviors just because. When one chooses to be an outright unsavory person, it is a choice they choose to make because they have an internal issue that needs redirecting. We are humans and we require human correction from time to time. That takes us not accepting or tolerating every single aspect of a person's attitude, character, being, but rather finding a commonplace to adjust their issue. One must not stoop to a level of negativity to communicate in efforts to effectively advise another to get themselves together. We stopped talking to one another and began allowing any and everything to exist just to keep the peace. It's hysterical how much strife comes out of keeping the peace. We must demand civility and require goodwill from one another, the peace will come. So my question to you is, why are you the way you are?
Lately there's been alot of talk about marriage. You know, marriage is what you make it. Don't go into it thinking that it's a fairy-tale or that everything is going to be perfect. Marriage is a relationship, like all relationships, there is some good and some bad. The commitment makes you think about your actions and mostly your words when communicating. Marriage is beautiful. There is joy and there is pain. Enjoy them both. When you do decide to get married, there should be no question but what to wear. A Queen is bred for a King and a King is bred to protect and provide for his Queen. Once you're married, you have that life partner that will ride with you on the journey of life through storms and sunshine. When you stumble, you have someone there to steady you. When you fall, you have someone to look up to as they lift you up. Marriage is what marriage is. One Life, One Marriage, Eternal Happiness.
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