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Privileged Requests

Hmm. Just thinking. When we tell people to evacuate during natural disasters do we ever think of the privilege in the notion of just loading up the car and grabbing a hotel or a safe place? Some of these people just paid mortgage and first of the month bills and may not have the resources. Some may have been displaced previously and used up their emergency allocation. Some just don't have it. And here we are telling people to just get outta there and backseat driving. I pray that their creator provide for them what's needed to "evacuate." Gotta be better.
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Silence

Couples dealing with communication issues: Being upset with someone and choosing not to communicate with them for more than 24 hours is a privileged emotion and a lack of maturity. Learn how to communicate effectively through any emotion. Are you upset with them or yourself? Grow the hell up.

JOY

Not so long ago, my faith wavered and I stopped waiting for my "Joy" to come in the morning, because it seemed it never would. So I took my own "Joy" at night. Let me tell ya, it felt good and looked good on the outside, but on the inside, maaaaan. You never know who's praying for ya or who's looking up to ya. Stay the course and trust the process. Quit being so impatient as I was. 

Guilt Trip

We all go through the battles that our creator knows we can handle. Something small to you may be big to another and vice versa. So never diminish the value of your victory because someone has convinced you that their battle was far worse.  #storm #rain #sunshine #pain #black #guilt #innocense #love #hate #noweapon #victory

Pardon the Interruption

Understand the difference between being destroyed and being disrupted. Things of no value are destroyed, not disrupted. If it were to be destroyed, it would have been done. Disruptions keep people from coming together and uniting. Disruptions force varied agendas which lead to destruction internally (within individual groups), not externally. It's sad to see people so lost in disruption that the only way to deal with them is by destruction. 

My Brother's Keeper

When people testify about their trying experiences, that doesn't mean they've overcome the trials. It's just a part of the process to heal. Pray harder for them (if you pray), call them more, check on em, be in their business just a little bit more. Sometimes the acknowledgement of an issue, after opening your mind to begin to heal, is when things really get real.  We can't do everything on our own, trust me, I know. Be a real family, a real friend, etc. It's not prying when someone is falling and you're their to catch them BEFORE they hit the ground. It's sad to hear of the passing of a YOUNG  Michael K  Williams and some of the details surrounding it. Noone has the answers to everything and a magic potion to save everyone. I will tell you this, tears mean nothing if you didn't sweat to save someone that you said you cared about and loved. This sh*t is getting tiring. As always, if ya need to talk or just need someone to sit in silence with ya, I got ya